1999: A Reflection

Today marks exactly 15 years since I graduated from high school. (I was a public school student.) For such a momentous occasion, I thought it would be fun to take a trip down memory lane and share it here.

First, here’s a picture of me way back then:

me in hs

How much about the news stories from back do you remember? What about the impeachment of then-President Clinton? Or the war in Kosovo? Those were what I wrote down as the most memorable of that year (national and international, respectively).

Here’s something that should be fun: prices. Back then, you could two loaves of bread for$1.39. These days, my husband will pay $5.19 without batting an eye. That’s for organic, chock-full-of-seeds bread, but still. I’m a little more reasonable; I pretty much max out at $2.50, or I make it at home. Milk was $2.79, which is pretty close to the $2.89-3.19 I pay now. The only difference is that back then, we were always told, “Be glad your car doesn’t run on milk,” because gas back then was in the $1.29-$1.39 range. Now of course, we’d be grateful if it dropped to$2.89! My, how times have changed. Eggs were 59 cents for a half-dozen. Now it’s around $1.19 for that size package. (Clearly I didn’t buy the eggs for our family back then or I would have recorded the price for a dozen instead of a half-dozen.) CDs and tapes – remember those? They ranged from $5.99-$15.99.

Okay, now a few personal things. In 1999, I was named Outstanding French Student. No wonder I love the language now, eh? The theme for my senior prom was “Light Up the Night,” and I attended with my now-husband. I got straight As and earned 28.5 credits; 24were required to graduate. My classes were Band (I played/play the flute), Government, British Lit, Yearbook (I was an assistant editor), and French 3. One of my best friends that year was a foreign exchange student from Germany. Unfortunately, I haven’t been in touch with her since then. (I wonder if the email address she left in my memory book is still accurate. And if so, would she even remember me?)

hs announcement collage

My high school graduation announcement

What year did you graduate? Tell me something memorable about that year in the comments!

Blessings,

Wendy

Simplicity: The Importance of Being Tidy

 

simplicity copy

I had a bit of a meltdown earlier this week. You see, our kitchen is a source of chronic frustration for me. No matter how good we are at wiping up spills and washing dishes, the clutter always finds a way in there. And once a little bit of clutter has nestled itself onto the countertop, a little more inevitably ends up there too. And so it continues until pretty soon it’s impossible to even fix dinner.

Or maybe that’s just the way it is at my house.

But I’m committed to making it work this time. Part of desiring a simplicity driven, minimalist lifestyle is making more time to spend with the family and spending less time stressed out and frustrated because things are messy. I don’t want to be concerning myself with “How am I going to prepare dinner in that messy room when we get home?” while we’re out having a family fun day. I don’t want to get home and be frustrated and annoyed after an otherwise lovely day.

I want to honestly live the simple life I claim to desire. That’s going to mean paying attention to things and keeping them under control. That’s going to mean organizing the places that are readily visible as well as those that aren’t. (The non-visible places are still a work in progress.) And that’s going to mean training everyone else, especially the children, that the kitchen counter isn’t their personal dumping ground.

Keeping the counters clear is only part of the solution, though. Have you ever heard of feng shui (pronounced “fung schway”)? It’s an Asian concept that essentially says that you will feel the way your living space looks. If your area is cluttered and messy, you will have messy thoughts and ideas. If your space is perpetually untidy or in disrepair, you’ll likely be unhappy there.

So when Will and I were cleaning up the kitchen the other night, we did all we could to make the feng shui better, too. (As renters, there’s only so much we can do…) I reorganized my spice shelf because it had gotten very untidy. I made sure everything that belonged in a cupboard was in its home and that the cabinet doors shut fully. I even cleared off the front of the refrigerator, which had been covered – in a messy, disorganized way – with papers (coupons, kid stuff, etc). The only things that went back up were the things that we need/use on a daily basis, which during this season are the boys’ summer reading logs and the paper that records their Good Behavior Points.

All this took about an hour, maybe a little more, but we’ve kept it up for several days now, and I’m much happier with the room.

Now we just need to do the other rooms in the house!

Blessings,

Wendy

Wednesday Chat #7

chatsonthefarmhouseporch

Hello, friends. I haven’t done a Wednesday chat in a few weeks, so I thought it would be fun today. If you have a blog and want to participate, head over to Everyday Ruralty to get the questions and link up.

What is your favorite berry?

I like all kinds! Well, except blueberries – which I like in baked goods. So let me break down my specific preferences. For just eating, I like strawberries best. I love the flavor of raspberries and blackberries, but the seeds drive me mad. In baked goods, blueberries or blackberries win. And for jams and jellies, it’s raspberries all the way.

If you had the choice of a picnic or sit-down dinner, which would you choose?

A sit-down dinner. There are some outdoor activities I enjoy – like tennis – but as a rule, I prefer the indoors.

How is your handwriting? Fancy, plain? Legible, doctor-like?

Right now it’s nonexistent. Stupid tendinitis *sigh* When I can write, though, I have . . . well, regular handwriting. Unless I’m being exceptionally lazy or rushed, it’s quite legible. If I have time to take my writing slow, it’s even better.

Do you prefer a desktop computer, laptop, or tablet?

Laptop. But I haven’t had one in a couple of years. These days, 90% of my “computing” is done on my phone or our Kindle Fire. The other 10% is done on hubby’s our desktop.

Tell me something interesting, please.

I’ve never in all my almost-33 years broken a bone. As a kid, I wondered what it would be like to have a cast. Now that I’ve this darn tendinitis, I no longer have any interest in trying one. Just the splint sucks big time, and I have the ability to take it off if I so desire. (Of course, I want to heal, so I’m not just taking it off willy-nilly. I removed it to shower earlier this week and ended up hurting for 12 hours solid. No more of that!)

So there’s a few more tidbits about me. Tell me: have you ever broken a bone?

Blessings,

Wendy

Simplicity: Tendinitis, Transmission, and Tennis

simplicity

 

Happy first week of June, everyone! For today’s simplicity post, I want to share with you the wonderful day we had yesterday. It was screen-free until the kids were in bed, and even then Will and I just watched YouTube videos for an hour or so. But first, some background – namely how we spent our Saturday.

Will was off selling books like he does most Saturdays. The kids and I were in ER.

See, my right wrist has been pretty achy for a couple of weeks. I figured it would get better on its own, but it’d been long enough that it was clear it wasn’t going to get better. So I went in. After the doctor felt around in there, she still wasn’t completely sure, so she ordered an X-Ray to be sure it wasn’t broken. Fortunately, it came back clean. That left us with a diagnosis of tendinitis, which is an inflammation of the tendons. They put me in a splint (like half a cast, held in place with Ace wrap) and said to take Ibuprofen to help with pain and swelling. (There’s no visible swelling, but obviously there’s internal swelling or I wouldn’t be having discomfort.) They expect it to be better in a week; if it’s not, I’ll see my regular doctor the next step. So there’s the first T.

Our car has been acting up a lot lately. We’re pretty sure the transmission is almost kaput. We opted not to put additional strain on it by driving the 18 miles to church yesterday. So that second T leads directly into the third.

Before we had kids, Will and I used to play tennis casually. That became much harder as our family grew, but the big boys are now old enough to play too. After playing one day with our old Goodwill adult rackets, it was clear that wouldn’t work long term, especially for Munchkin. So we splurged on kid rackets for them yesterday, along with a trio of kid tennis balls (they’re bigger and softer, which allows them to move just a little slower). We (well, everyone but me) played in the road in front of our house for a few hours yesterday afternoon, and then after dinner we walked to the high school (which is less than a mile from home) and played on the tennis courts. Small Fry’s job was to retrieve the balls after they’d stopped and throw them to whoever’s serve it was. He loved it!

So that was our weekend. Some crazy, some beautifully simple.

How was yours?

Blessings,

Wendy

 

Picture of the Week: Tulip Kids

 

tulips

 

We took our annual trip to the Tulip Festival with my in-laws a couple of weeks ago. It was super fun, as always! This year, Small Fry was big enough to walk around and do some stuff. He really liked the swings. The face cutouts are some of our favorite things to do for pictures while we’re there, too. Last year, Seahawk, Munchkin, and their grandpa posed in this particular cutout. This year, Small Fry was big enough to participate . . . while sitting on Seahawk’s knee, that is!

Blessings,

Wendy